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Master of Jen-ology Posts: 4647 09/28/08 9:24 AM Most Intrepid. Period. Light Travels faster than sound. That's why people appear to be bright until you hear them speak...	Tags : None I made this thread for issues about relationships. I'm in the middle of a love dilemma right now. And, I know I'm not alone. Anyways, my problem is about confrontation. How do you confront someone about your love for him/her if: - You are both of the same sex; and - You are afraid of losing him even as a friend. Hope someone can help... Last Edited By: jloaddict 09/28/08 9:44 AM. Edited 2 times.
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xCrazyFOJLOx		#1	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1361 09/28/08 11:30 AM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	Well I am in a relationship dilmma right now.. Its a long story, and I am TRYYYYYIIIIIIIIING MY BEST BEST BEST BEST BEST i mean BEST! to win his heart over again, and it seems like that aint enough. =/
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superflygirl		#2	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 27100 09/28/08 2:54 PM BB Librarian 2008. Beyond Bitchy. BB & OJF - you heard it here first.	I'm having no love drama, just heart palpitations and giggly-ness around him, lol. HAHA I'm a tool. Anyways, jloaddict...just be honest. You could lose a friend, or gain a boyfriend. Is it worth it to you?
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Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 6583 09/28/08 3:21 PM I'm bigger than my fears! ......I am BRAVE!	There was a girl in high school,i knew her for like 2-3 years,we were 'just friends' but i really liked her. I didn't tell about how i felt,i was afraid that i could loose her as a friend. now,4 years later,i heard that she's is in another city for university and we haven't heard from each other for more years. 'Love comes and goes but friends stay forever! ' - BULLSHIT. I wish i told her.... what i'm trying to tell you is,just let it flow. Be honest.
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jloaddict		#4	[url]	[-]
Master of Jen-ology Posts: 4648 09/28/08 9:24 PM Most Intrepid. Period. Light Travels faster than sound. That's why people appear to be bright until you hear them speak...	to superflygirl: i'm not sure if it will be worth it. I'm happy being friends with him but something just...missing.
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xCrazyFOJLOx		#5	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1363 09/28/08 11:12 PM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	I'll say go for it! think positive don't hide your feelings ...... then you wont be thinking, would've, couldv'e shouldve
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Aint It Funny 27		#6	[url]	[-]
Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 4735 09/28/08 11:48 PM I Wanna Be Like Jen	I had a friend that I had a huge crush on and it took me forever to realize that. I finally told him, and we're still friends. Nothing ever came of it, except that he packed up and went out of state for college instead of staying in state. But nonetheless we're still best friends.
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Master of Jen-ology Posts: 3548 09/28/08 11:49 PM ღOne Step At a Timeღ ❤Mami's Angels Max & Emme❤	I agree ^ Im having Problems myself but im not in any relationship right now but i dont know what to do about guys.... Cuz so many guys have told me they wanted to go out with me but i dont know, they are just not right for me all the guys that have told me they wanted to go out with me and that they like me.... i dont like them that way...some of them are my friends... =/ And theres this guy that is crazy over me since 9th grade now we are in 11th his super inlove with me ,but i dont feel we are right for each other... We are super close friends but he wants to be more than that.... but i dont cuz,to be honest i dont feel any love for him,i mean i care about him but thats it no love at all,and i have tryed to feel something for him but its not there... And i feel bad cuz i know he would do anything for me but i dont want to go out with him then thing dont work out, cuz i just know it wont and then lose the amazing friendship we have...We mess around and act like we are going out, But i dont feel we ever will be boyfriend & girlfriend...... i wont go out with him and then letting him get hurt cuz i dont feel the same way he does for me...
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xCrazyFOJLOx		#8	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1366 09/28/08 11:58 PM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	JennyLo wrote: I agree ^ Im having Problems myself but im not in any relationship right now but i dont know what to do about guys.... Cuz so many guys have told me they wanted to go out with me but i dont know, they are just not right for me all the guys that have told me they wanted to go out with me and that they like me.... i dont like them that way...some of them are my friends... =/ And theres this guy that is crazy over me since 9th grade now we are in 11th his super inlove with me ,but i dont feel we are right for each other... We are super close friends but he wants to be more than that.... but i dont cuz,to be honest i dont feel any love for him,i mean i care about him but thats it no love at all,and i have tryed to feel something for him but its not there... And i feel bad cuz i know he would do anything for me but i dont want to go out with him then thing dont work out, cuz i just know it wont and then lose the amazing friendship we have...We mess around and act like we are going out, But i dont feel we ever will be boyfriend & girlfriend...... i wont go out with him and then letting him get hurt cuz i dont feel the same way he does for me... I know how u feel in that one... when u like someone, hopefully they'll feel the same, if not then it just wont work........ its all about chemistry i guess... love comes in mysterious ways, I found my ex (the one who broke up with me) through Youtube.com ....... one day i was bored, i was watching videos and i came across his videos and i sent him a message, i didnt like him like that, but talking online everyday, and then having feelings for eachother, then going on dates, then having more feelings for eachother, and then KABOOOOOOOOM, we started a relationship, and ended up loving eachother. Even tho he is mad at me for hurting him, in which the situation he is OVERLY exagerating, but he is treating me like shyt, and acting like an asshole. I dont text him much these days, and he randomly texts me, even tho i wrote him poems, e-cards, blogs saying sorry for what i did, nothing changed....... deep inside i know he still wants me, he is just mad at the moment, but he'll eventually get over it cuz i am not a bad guy, and people have that saying, you'll realize you had something good when they walk away........so yeah, Love Sucks u guyz lol
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superflygirl		#9	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 27123 09/29/08 2:23 PM BB Librarian 2008. Beyond Bitchy. BB & OJF - you heard it here first.	I think you should just be honest, jloaddict. If you are true friends, you will still be friends after. If he walks away, then that's his issue, not yours. I'm still really good friends with a guy who liked me a lot in high school. He's over it now and we're pals.
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jloaddict		#10	[url]	[-]
Master of Jen-ology Posts: 4652 09/30/08 8:00 AM Most Intrepid. Period. Light Travels faster than sound. That's why people appear to be bright until you hear them speak...	superflygirl wrote: I think you should just be honest, jloaddict. If you are true friends, you will still be friends after. If he walks away, then that's his issue, not yours. I'm still really good friends with a guy who liked me a lot in high school. He's over it now and we're pals. But mine's a different case... we're of the same gender.
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xCrazyFOJLOx		#11	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1370 09/30/08 11:38 AM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	^^same gender or not, we are human LOL... Emotions are all the same on everyone straight, gay, purple, blue, yellow, even your own dog lol just go for it! you'll never know what if he likes you back? eh? eh?
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xCrazyFOJLOx		#12	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1370 09/30/08 11:38 AM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	^^same gender or not, we are human LOL... Emotions are all the same on everyone straight, gay, purple, blue, yellow, even your own dog lol just go for it! you'll never know what if he likes you back? eh? eh?
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superflygirl		#13	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 27152 09/30/08 7:31 PM BB Librarian 2008. Beyond Bitchy. BB & OJF - you heard it here first.	Exactly. Same gender or not, if you're real friends, then you will still be friends after.
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jloaddict		#14	[url]	[-]
Master of Jen-ology Posts: 4653 09/30/08 9:48 PM Most Intrepid. Period. Light Travels faster than sound. That's why people appear to be bright until you hear them speak...	Well... give me some moments to think about this... This is a very scary part...
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JennyLo		#15	[url]	[-]
Master of Jen-ology Posts: 3557 09/30/08 10:02 PM ღOne Step At a Timeღ ❤Mami's Angels Max & Emme❤	xCrazyFOJLOx wrote: I know how u feel in that one... when u like someone, hopefully they'll feel the same, if not then it just wont work........ its all about chemistry i guess... love comes in mysterious ways, I found my ex (the one who broke up with me) through Youtube.com ....... one day i was bored, i was watching videos and i came across his videos and i sent him a message, i didnt like him like that, but talking online everyday, and then having feelings for eachother, then going on dates, then having more feelings for eachother, and then KABOOOOOOOOM, we started a relationship, and ended up loving eachother. Even tho he is mad at me for hurting him, in which the situation he is OVERLY exagerating, but he is treating me like shyt, and acting like an asshole. I dont text him much these days, and he randomly texts me, even tho i wrote him poems, e-cards, blogs saying sorry for what i did, nothing changed....... deep inside i know he still wants me, he is just mad at the moment, but he'll eventually get over it cuz i am not a bad guy, and people have that saying, you'll realize you had something good when they walk away........so yeah, Love Sucks u guyz lol Yeah it really does sucks sometimes when its just not right... IMO...In reality chemistry is everything, Its 100% all about chemistry it just the way it is, because if you dont have that then thers really nothing... That how it happens when you both KABOOOOOOOOM...not when one person does and the other one doesnt...
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JennyLo		#16	[url]	[-]
Master of Jen-ology Posts: 3558 09/30/08 10:12 PM ღOne Step At a Timeღ ❤Mami's Angels Max & Emme❤	Just go for it and what ever happens, happens there nothing you can do about it, but dont sit there and let time go by then a few months or years later you gonna be saying what If i told him,what if he felt the same,what if it worked out.... Trust me dont keep it inside its the wrost thing you can do...I know cuz that how i feel right now and thats what im doing keeping it to me...I feel something for this guy but i dont tell him cuz his my ex and i just dont wanna lose the friendship that we have, also i think his inlove with someother girl so there no point in me telling him.... But i think you should tell him cuz it hurt so much to keep it inside then think every day what if i told him and he felt the same,and i get what ur saying cuz you dont wanna lose him, its really hard...i say just go 4 it....
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timmyd2121		#17	[url]	[-]
Administrator BB Staff Member Doctor of Jen-ology Posts: 21596 10/01/08 5:57 PM Beyond Bitchy. BB Night Patrol	Jloaddict, sorry for FINALLY reading this thread. It is a hard situation because it could come off as a surprise but I think the best thing to do is not surprise him too much. Does he know you might be gay, bi or whatever? If not, then I think that should be the first step and then later drop some hints or whatever you want to do so it won't be such a huge surprise. He might be talking to you about this chick and then you tell him you like him and he'd be like...."Whoa, you like guys?" youknowwhatimean? If you tell him about your attraction to guys (or one guy in this case lol) then it would be less shocking if you told him how you felt.
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jamesuk2		#18	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1827 10/02/08 10:53 AM 'One of the great joys in life is doing things people say you cannot do' Jenny & Benny Forever Jen's Ghost Manager	^ I agree with Tim. It could come off as pretty shocking all round if he doesn't know you like guys. So once he knows that or if does then I would tell him how you feel.
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xCrazyFOJLOx		#19	[url]	[-]
Bachelor of Jen-ology Posts: 1375 10/02/08 12:59 PM BB'er W/The Most Real Life Drama '08	I havnt texted my "ex" much these days, i randomly say a comment about my day yesterday. I go on yahoo when I get home from work, I IM him I had my haircut today, the same way you love it when I went over your friends house..... He responded with I wanna see......I said, Maybe Next TIME. And I am like my webcam doesnt work yet, and he is like...I miss you Maybe..... and so I turned on my Webcam,and i told him memories when we first dated lookin at eachothers webcams in the beginning, and then he's like, I wanna hug you but........... I miss you buttttttt, and yeah, he totally wants me back, I mean shyt, my love is irresistable LOL.....he is starting to realize you never know what you have til its gone, and maybe thats what suppose to happen... I say everything happens for a reason, I stay coool, collected, and watch the days go by, but eventually he'll come back into my arms and jloaddict, go for it! =)
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jloaddict		#20	[url]	[-]
Master of Jen-ology Posts: 4660 10/04/08 9:48 PM Most Intrepid. Period. Light Travels faster than sound. That's why people appear to be bright until you hear them speak...	Lol. I still don't have the courage to tell him.
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